Your battle’s been long. Day after day, you rise praying for a change and a “better” but it still looks and feels the same. You’re tired. The facts say this is the way it’s going to be. It is what it is, despite your best efforts. Discouragement has crept in and depression isn’t far behind. You tell yourself you may as well settle in and try to become okay with it because it’s never going to change for the better. You’ve given it your best shot; now it’s time to learn to live with it.
The disciples felt the same way. Walking on that road to Emmaus they reminisced over all they had been taught and heard from Jesus. They gave up everything to follow Him only to watch Him be captured and killed. He’s dead. They’d seen Him die, they probably witnessed His cold body be wrapped in death linens and placed in a tomb. Gone. Buried. What are they supposed to do with that harsh truth? That was the truth, you know. They were grieved and perhaps decided to go back to their pre-Jesus lives. It appeared to be over so they scattered and went on.
They forgot the rest of the story. In their grief, fear and despair, they forgot the truth…HIS truth…that yes, He would be crucified, killed and buried BUT He would rise again. At that moment on the road, though, their confusion and grief was all they could see and feel. It had been three days, too long a period of time to really hope for a change.
Is it your third day? Are you loosening the grip on your hope? Sometimes the truth of the situation trips us up and we fight the thing which causes our grip on God to weaken. The circumstances are real and we demand God show up and rescue us. Perhaps we’re looking more for a thing rather than the Person. Oswald Chambers makes a profound statement which says “the purpose of prayer isn’t to get an answer, it’s to get hold of God”. In times of desperation and depression, that “mission” evades us – we’re so focused on our need we’re sometimes more desperate for an answer or remedy than we are for Him when, in fact, He is the answer!
Third days are hard. Our faith erodes and we’re finding ourselves in a weakened state physically, mentally and spiritually. What do we do? Hang on. Start speaking “the other” truths to yourself and remember, HIS WORD is just as much truth as the situation we find ourselves in. Start believing (even though it appears to be ridiculous) what He said. Convince yourself that no matter if everything looks dead, He’s not. He is hope. He is peace, comfort, and He has promised to provide. He’s promised to never leave or forsake us. He’s in that third day place with us.
The critical choice is whether we choose to have hope in Him or not. Jesus had the ultimate third day. He proved Himself to be who He said He was. He will do the same in your third day. Only believe.