After my last blog, I felt “nudged” to add an addendum. Just because terrible visits, doesn’t mean it has to be a permanent guest.
I’m here to tell you wonderful and beautiful things come out of the worst times in one’s life. Sometimes they’re glaringly obvious; other times we must search for them with the same passion we look for our lost keys or cellphones.
With all the loss and pain, God has more than proven Himself true to His word about recreating beauty, solidifying His love for me, giving me brand-new relationships with people to the extent that I no longer mourn over what and who is gone. Sure, there’s a season for that – a time when we grieve and hurt, but as promised if we’ll “let go and let God” I assure you, healing and refreshing will come. Loss can’t compare to the joy of healing, believe it.
Pain sometimes becomes our best friend because if we stay in it, nothing’s required of us. It’s easier to dwell because climbing out requires a lot of effort and even more faith.
Choose with me to believe He’s working on our behalf in ways we can’t even think of. Choose to focus on Him and His goodness; His promises that if we’re reading this (or typing it, as the case may be) He has lots of lessons and even more love, personal touches and provision for our future; we’ve survived the past. We choose to learn from it and seek Him through it all, and He’s working it all out for our good. For our GOOD…no matter how terrible it’s been, there WILL be good in it all and we will see it. When we see it, then we will KNOW differently than we did before His great love, grace and mercy for us and we’ll actually be thankful we suffered!
It may be a stretch to believe like that if you’re “in it” right now but if you hang on and hang in, trust me, you will. At this point in my life, my faith in Jesus is more solid than it was nine years ago…more solid than it was a year ago. I KNOW HIM…and want to know Him more than I did even an hour ago. No longer can I be made to doubt – even in the worst times – that He has a glorious plan for my life. I can’t even make myself doubt what a wonderful, loving, personally faithful and providing Father-God I have. So. Hang on and believe. Anticipate what beautiful things will come from the ashes. It’s coming, I promise.